So, you’ve decided—or maybe your lovely relative signed you up—to host a wedding at your house. Welcome to the wild world of home weddings. It’s exciting, a little nerve-wracking, and, let’s be real, pretty special. There’s nothing quite like saying “I do” (or watching someone else say it) in a place with so many memories baked right in. Here’s how to get your home set up for the big day, all without turning into one of those frazzled hosts who forget what an actual celebration looks like!

Walk Around With Fresh Eyes (Seriously, Pretend You’re a Guest)

Grab a notepad or just your phone, and stroll around your place. Imagine you’re seeing it for the very first time. Is the walkway safe? Do any steps wobble? Are the front door and entryway inviting, or is there a pile of shoes from last week’s soccer practice? Make a quick list of what stands out—this is your wedding prep roadmap.

The Little Fixes Go a Long Way

Tiny things, like a loose door handle, a cracked tile, or a sticky sliding door, are no big deal most days. For a wedding, though, you’ll want to tackle those little annoyances now, before your future in-laws or the photographer trip over them. Pick a weekend for a mini home-improvement blitz—you’ll feel a lot calmer knowing guests aren’t about to discover your house’s quirks firsthand.

Yard Patrol: Green and Gorgeous

Whether you’re planning a backyard bash or just using your garden as a photo spot, take some time to wrangle your greenery. Mow, weed, maybe throw down some fresh mulch or a few potted plants for color. Got a wayward hedge or a sad patch of grass? Nobody’s judging, but a quick sprucing-up can transform things. Also, check your outdoor lights. Nobody wants to end their special night by stumbling off the patio.

Don’t Forget What’s Over Your Head

Here’s one folks often skip: your roof. Even the prettiest home can be wrecked by an unexpected leak, especially with a crowd inside or if it rains on show day (fingers crossed for sunshine, but…). It might be time to check your roof for missing shingles or signs of trouble. If you see anything iffy, call in a pro for a residential roof repair. Peace of mind is priceless when you’re hosting, and you do not want buckets catching drips in the living room while vows are being exchanged.

Get the Flow Right

Think about the little things guests will need: places to sit, spots for coats and bags, easy bathroom access. Rent or borrow extra chairs if you’re short. Remove fragile items—trust me, grandma’s vase will survive the weekend better in a closet. Walk guests’ likely paths, see what might get bumped or blocked, and move things around as needed.

Emergency Prep (Just in Case)

Have extra trash bags, paper towels, and a “wedding day kit” with scissors, tape, and stain remover. Someone always spills red wine, and it’s never the person you expect. Make a weather plan—tents, fans, heaters, whatever fits the season.

Let People Help (You’ll Be Glad You Did)

Family and friends want to pitch in. Delegate tasks and accept their offers, even if you’re a total DIY-er at heart. Letting go just a little can actually make your day even better.

Remember: a home wedding is about love and togetherness, not perfection. Prep what you can, then relax and enjoy the magic.