Let’s be real: wedding planning is full of choices that can make your head spin. There’s the perfect dress, the shoes you pray won’t kill your feet, and then the all-important question—what on earth are you going to do with your hair? 

If you want some red carpet wisdom (and not just a Pinterest-perfect moment), Kenna Kennor, Britt Lower’s husband, is the stylist you want whispering in your ear.

Kenna’s whole philosophy is about finding the sweet spot between feeling special and still feeling like you. Here’s his no-nonsense (and very human) advice for picking the best wedding hairstyle for your big day—whether you’re after romantic, modern, or something all your own.

Get Clear on Your Vibe Before You Book a Blowout

Kenna always starts with a question like how do you want to feel on your wedding day? Classic, boho, glam, totally undone? Match your hair to the mood of your day, not just the Pinterest board you saved at 2 a.m. Are you hosting in a ballroom or a backyard? He suggests building your look around the tone—think chic chignon for an elegant affair or effortless waves if you’re marrying barefoot on a beach.

Your Dress Comes First—Let It Lead the Way

This sounds old-fashioned, but Kenna swears it works: your hairstyle shouldn’t fight your gown for attention. Got a dramatic back or high neckline? He usually leans toward an updo or a sleek pony to show off the details. Straps and lower necklines love softer, down-and-wavy styles that pool over your shoulders.

Bring a photo of your dress to your hair trial (or at least describe it). It’s wild how much difference it makes.

Test Drives Are for Hair Too

Kenna’s a big fan of hair trials—and even a “style rehearsal” a few weeks out. He tells brides to wear your trial style for a few hours. How does it hold up? Can you eat, dance, hug your grandma? If you get a headache, are constantly tucking hair behind your ear, or it falls flat before lunch, it’s better to find out before the big day.

Don’t Go Too Trendy—But Don’t Be Afraid to Have Fun

It’s tempting to chase whatever’s hot on Instagram, but Kenna believes wedding hair is the place to lean into timeless with maybe one or two playful touches (a flower here, a sparkly pin there). He always reminds his clients that you’ll be looking at those pictures forever. Pick a look that feels naturally like you—but at your absolute brightest.

Consider the Elements (Seriously)

Getting married outside? Hot, humid, or windy weather will test your style’s staying power. Kenna recommends a trial run in similar conditions or asking your stylist how to prep for humidity, heat, or a breeze. Bring a mini hair kit—extra pins, small hairspray, even a tiny brush—tucked in your wedding bag.

Last—and Maybe the Most Important—Trust Your Gut (and Your Stylist)

Kenna says the best hair is the hair that makes you feel strongest. If you don’t feel like yourself, don’t be afraid to speak up in the chair. At the end of the day, whether you twirl into your wedding with sleek waves, soft braids, or a modern twist, wear it with confidence.